L.D.
Hi E.,
It is a complex issue to be sure, and one that raises concerns for many parents! I myself am very pro-vaccine and have spoken out about that before on this website. I have been engaged in a very good dialogue with another mamasource mother for about 2 months, she is anti-vaccine, and we have been sharing research and information back and forth on this issue. It has been very educational for us both and I believe it has not only given me more insight into "the other side", but has actually served to strengthen my own position in my mind.
That being said, I will also share that I have 2 good friends who work in the medical and pharmeceutical industries. One is a PhD and Pharm D, the former Director of Clinical Sciences for Pfizer, and currently holds that position for Takeda. The other is a top rated neurologist with his PhD who specializes in children's disorders, such as autism and RETT Syndrome. I have had lengthy discussions with them both about this issue and continue to bounce information off of them. The resounding response I get from them, without getting into the vast details they provide, is vaccinate your children. Period.
At the end of the day, you have to decide what you feel is best for your child. With vaccines, we are all in a position where we have to perform a "cost/benefit" analysis. From the massive amounts of research and conversations I have done, including with my own doctors, I have concluded that for my children, the benefits of vaccinating them far outweight the potential dangers. It is important to remember that no vaccine is 100% safe - every doctor will tell you that. But the number of children who have a reaction are minimal compared against the population who are being vaccinated. And the more you research, the more you'll find that the overwhelming majority of children who have reactions are found to have had a pre-existing condition that did not previously reveal itself (such as mitochondrial disorder). These types of disorders are genetic, determined at conception, and will present themselves at some point in the child's life. But they may remain hidden until sometime around 18 months of age, coincidentally when MMR is given. Many scientists believe this is true of autism (there is believed to be a major genetic component to this disorder), and they know it is absolutely true of RETT syndrome. Also, in some people, their immune system is just overly sensitive and hyper-reacts. This is how people get allergies - their body sees grass as an invader and starts going bonkers over it. This happens in some children with vaccines - their immune system hyper-reacts to the virus that is being injected. Imagine, though, what might happen if that child encountered the actual virus. These are the children that might have the most devastating effects of the disease.
My advice to anyone who is worried about this issue is to keep reading, talking, researching, asking questions, and talking with your doctor. So many mothers with this concern leave their doctors out of the picture because they don't trust them. My feeling is if you don't trust your doctor enough with this type of converstion, then you need to find one that you do. Many mothers stop short by asking the question, then they leave it hanging out there without looking for the answer. The answers to all of these questions are out there - find the answers, question them, then discuss them with your doctor. Often the doctor can fill in blanks in your own personal research and help you come to a decision that's best for you.
Just beware of conspiracy theories and keep in mind that there are a million theories out there, but no concrete scientific evidence that points to vaccines causing things like autism. Perhaps one day there will be. But unlike in religion, in science belief is not enough. What we do know is that vaccines have proven to be our biggest scientific advancement against the debilitating diseases that once plagued our society, and without them, we run the risk that these diseases will return in full force - then potentially mutate so that the vaccines and medications we have to combat them are no longer even effective. People will also tell you that it's not the end of the world if your child gets the measles or the mumps - chances are they won't die. But to me, death is not the only result to protect against. Children with measles can go deaf or blind, children with mumps can become sterile, children with Hep B will most likely develop chronic Hep B, which drastically increases their chances of developing liver cancer and a host of other liver problems. Now, I've heard some mothers say they'd rather have their child live with being blind than autistic, so they'll take their chances. As I said earlier, it is a cost/benefit analysis that only you can perform. In my opinion, the risk of my child getting autism from a vaccine (and science has not even confirmed there's a link here) is far less than the resulting consequences of her suffering the ill-effects of a disease. Science knows that if your body encounters a disease it has never seen before, you WILL contract that disease. Vaccines trigger the memory component of our immune system without us actually contracting the disease itself. This is why it remains our best defense.
Whew! I know that is a lot of information. And believe me, I could go on! There is that much to discuss. Hopefully this little bit has helped you. Good luck with your decision! As I said before, keep researching, asking questions, and talking with your doctor. You'll find the answer that's best for you : )