K.S.
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My son has a chromosonal defect as well. It's not the same one that your little one has, but his is a varied defect as well. He has Williams Syndrome (a miniscule (sp?) part of chromosone #7 is missing). You will soon realize that it is amazing what one little extra or missing chromozone can effect in development and demeaner. Gabriel has a chance of a wide variety of symptoms (commonalities include delayed development, mental retardation, social problems and severe medical issues).
Childrens Mercy hospital is the best place for your little girl! We have been there so many times (our genetic counselor is there) and they have always been GREAT with us. They will explain everything to you and answer all your questions.
I know how you feel about finding out...no one can be prepared for the shock of finding out your little one...your dream will not be like the other children. We went through a time where we mourned the loss of our son. Everyday, new information will flood your mind and some of it will be hard to digest. I will CERTAINLY be praying for you! We found out about Gabriel after he was born when his heart stopped on the opperating table during a hernia surgery. You are lucky to know now so that you can put the proper systems in place for your little one...and so that you can prepare yourself. It is not easy, but your little girl will bring you more joy than you ever thought possible.
Check out a program they have here in Missouri called First Steps. It is a program designed for infants with special needs. They will provide you with physical therapists, speach therapists, occupational therapists...etc for little or no cost (sliding scale). You little one should automatically qualify b/c of her diagnosis. The phone number for our director is: ###-###-####. Her name is Kathy Daulton. Tell her that Gabriel Smith's parents sent you. She is GREAT and will set you up with anything you need. They will come to your home and work with your little girl.
Don't hesitate to contact me further if you need anything. Gabriel is 20 months old now and you are more than welcome to come visit us (or we can come visit you) if you need some fellow special needs parent company or advice. We will be praying for you!
K. K
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