K.W.
I heard a story once; I hope I can remember how it goes...
In a time of famine, drought and tough times, people were packing up their families and fleeing to the big cities in search of a better life. Standing at the edge of the city was a wise, old man. As the cars would pass, many of them would stop to ask him about the city...what the people there were like. He would ask them, "What were the people like where you come from?"
If their answer was,"Oh, what a rotten bunch of ignorant fools they all were", the old man would nod sympathetically and tell them, "In the city, you will find the people to be much the same way" and he would wave sadly to them as they continued on. If however, their answer was, "Oh, the people where we come from were wonderful and giving and we will miss them so", the old man would nod and smile and tell them, "In the city, you will find the people to be much the same way" and he would wave happily to them as they continued on.