Hi, R....
Our nearly 9 month old son just had tubes put in Wednesday morning. I'm not sure about the group of doctors that you mentioned--we had Dr. Malone from Midwest Ear, Nose, & Throat Specialists (she's great!). She actually did the procedure up at Children's Hospital in St.Paul because his canals are so tiny and he was so little. He'd basically had fluid in his ears for at least 3 months and about 6 infections during that time. They actually did a hearing test on him at the office before deciding on the tubes, and it was beginning to affect his hearing a bit, but that should be better now that the fluid is gone. He had to have a pre-op physical with his pediatrician within a week before the surgery. In terms of what to expect that day: He had to stop formula at 1:30am (breastmilk at 3:30)and could do clear liquids until 4:30am. Nothing after that. We had to arrive at 6am. They had us bring comfort items--blanket, nuk, stuffed animal (he took all of those into surgery). We went through registration, got security passes, then went into the surgery center area. They took his vitals, had some questions for us, and had us sign the initial release. After a little bit, they took us upstairs to the OR waiting room for that area. We met with the anesthesiologist and the surgeon...were able to ask questions, had some things explained, and signed the releases for the anesthesia and surgery. They took James back after that for the anesthesia. My husband went back with him and held him while they put the mask on. He fell asleep very quickly. My husband came back to the waiting room with me, and James was taken in to the OR. The procedure took less than 10 min and we were able to monitor what was happening on a little monitor in the waiting room (little symbols indicated surgery started, surgery complete, into recovery, etc). He was in recovery for about 20 minutes or so. During that time the surgeon (Dr Malone) came out and told us how things went and what to expect. Then they came and got us as soon as he woke up. They took us downstairs to the short stay unit. We stayed there for just over an hour. They like to observe them for a bit and make sure that they are able to drink (we were to bring a bottle for him). He was able to sleep after a bit--he was crying a lot at first because everything is different...sounds, swallowing, etc, and from the anesthesia making him feel a little strange. Once he fell asleep, we just stayed there for a bit and then moved him into the car seat for the ride home. They went through discharge paperwork, what to watch for, and how to administer the drops for his ears (5 days). Since then, we have been doing the drops. You can tell his hearing is much more sensitive than it was by his responses and babbles. He has had some discharge (normal for several days). We see the doc for a post op check up in a couple of weeks. Our niece had this done about the age your daughter is--it helped her a lot, too...no more ear infections! We're hoping :) A lot of info, but hopefully it helps set you at ease.
Blessings,
V.