My 5 year old is on her 3rd set of tubes. They really are not a big thing these days. She is allowed to go swimming (not in lakes), take baths etc. without having to wear earplugs.
With the first 2 sets of tubes, by the time we got back to the waiting room after they took my daughter back, not 5 minutes later the doctor was out of the operating room letting us know that everything went well. The last set took longer because they were more permanant.
Now my daughter has more permanant tubes and she's fine. She just can't go swimming in a lake without earplugs. The doctor told us the ocean was okay though.
One thing we have since discovered is that if your child has acid reflux, this can cause more ear infections. Another discovery was blowing noses. If we can get our daughter to blow her nose, she's okay. If she doesn't, she will usually end up with an ear infection.
I just read some of your responses. Most kids do grow out of the infections, however, there are some who do not. My daughter, unfortunately, is one of those who will not grow out of the infections.
Not sure how much you know about ear infections, however, not treating them can cause hearing loss so it is always better to err on the side of caution. I can't count how many times we thought my daughter had an ear infection because of the signs to not have one or was on the brink of getting one so we nipped it before it became a problem.
If your child has chronic ear infections, you will learn your childs signs and know that you will need to take them for a checkup.
I hope your baby feels better and that you get the tubes put in quickly. I know what it is like to live with that.