T.W.
i would look into a few things. i'm not sure what will fit your needs exactly. here is a list of support groups hill country bible church offers http://www.hcbc.com/templates/System/details.asp?id=28485...=
i would also look into celebrate recovery
http://www.celebraterecovery.com/?page_id=4
the general name is celebrate recovery but depending on who's hosting the recovery groups there will be more focused support groups at the meetings. this is a great program for anyone who's been hurt, had addictions etc. it's not an aa meeting although they also do support for that. this really helped my friend who was horribly sexually/physically/emotionally abused all her life. i'm praying for your family!