I am going to bet, she is right on track, just still young. Very normal, it is just more obvious because she is being compared to children older than her. some people hold back their children so long, some children may be going on 7 in her classes by the end of school year. .
Do you all do crafts at home? Cutting pasting, coloring? Baking? If you sit with her, will she complete the project?
If you get up and walk away, will she complete the project? even if not being watched/
Is she good at listening to a book as you read to her?
Our daughter was one of the younger children all the way through school.
BUT she had been in Day care since she was 6 months and so she had practice, with the school rules. Stay in your chair. Clean up the messes, Show me your work when you are finished. They had story time 2 times a day. They walked in lines. They helped serve lunch.
So if your child had not had some of this training or experiences, it could be she is just a little behind compared to the other students.
Some fun therapies that will also help with her attention is to have her sort things. Like a piggy ban. Empty it in front of her and have her put "like things' together. Pennies in a box, nickles in a can, dimes in a bowl, quarters in a baggie.
Then have her count and place them in stacks of 10's...
this will take patience, but also build up some fine motor skills in her hands. Their hands and fingers can become tired when they are not used to using them for so long.
Have her help you make cookie dough for "Thumb Print cookies".
Then have her roll out balls.. have her line them up on the cookie sheets. then have her make a thumb print in each ball on one sheet. then have her use a finger print on another cookie sheet. let her either place a chocolate candy on each cookie, or spoon a small amount of jam in each print. (having her unwrap all of the Hershey kisses is also a fine motor skill)
Again, this will take concentration and build up those hands and fingers.
Over the Christmas holidays.. have her write some very short thank you notes for all of her gifts. She could even draw a special picture and then sign it thank you.. on the bottom of the page. The relatives will love it, and she will be practicing her school skills.
Before you go to the store, have her "Write up" the grocery list. I would not worry so much about the spelling, but having her feel like what she is writing is important, will help her understand, the things she writes at school are also important. Make sure she can call back what she wrote. If not, tell her she can draw a picture of the item, to help her remember. Or both of you sit together and make up the list. Have her collect information from dad about what he needs from the store too.
In her stocking, give her, her own "grocery list pad".. She will always want to help.
She just needs to put school work together with her own life, so she can "Own it".. School is school, but when she realizes she is actually helping you.. she will be so excited.
Congratulate her, each time she completes little projects and tasks. When she does not complete them, just encourage her to go back and finish.
Use yourself as an example. "If i did not finish cooking, we would not be able to eat dinner. "If dad did not finish the laundry, we would have to wear dirty clothes.. etc..