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Hi I.,
My step father adopted me too. Even though the circumstances are a bit different(my father passed when I was 3), I dont think you've got much to worry about. From what I can remember the process was fairly simple. The part I'm sure your worried about is having it in a local listing for so many weeks. hahaha when my parents and I looked for it in the paper when we went through the process we almost never found it. If the biological father doesnt even live in the area, then definitely you have nothing to worry about. I believe you only have to have the ad in a local paper. But things may have changed. p.s. and the fact that he has had no contact...I'm sure your son can protest against him. And if he hasnt paid you support whatsoever he has NO right to protest.