When my now 20 mo old twins (boy/girl) were 14 mos. I started putting them on a schedule. Bedtime for both is at 9pm. My son would always wake up (a few times less a wk now), Twice during the night for a bottle & I would give him one. My daughter, on the other hand slept all thru the night. I was told not to give him a bottle but I ignored it and still do. I brush their teeth before bedtime and in the morning (when I remember). At times they still cry but only for about less than a minute to five. They have to know it's 'bedtime'. I would start telling them it's bedtime, and I shut tv off, we go say nite nite to the fishies, and our dog Misty. They wake up between 7:45-9am. I used to give them a bottle but they are less on the bottle and more foods. I give them waffles with banana, little pancakes, scambled eggs with toast, cereal with banana or oatmeal with toast. I sit them on their high chairs, but latley I sit them now on their table on two chairs watching their favorite Nick Jr. shows. About 2 hrs later or less I give them a snack, like sliced oranges, or any other fruit, jello, applesauce or pudding with crackers. Around 12:30-1pm they'll have a chocolate milk bottle (if they dont' want food), or a peanutbutter/jam sandwich, vienna sausages with cheese, etc. When they're done, it's 'naptime'. I'll sing it for them. They'll nap for about 2-4 hours. When they wake up from their naps, its lunch time, a peanutbutter/jam sandwich, or sliced avocados with sausage cheese, etc. An hour or so later; a snack. Dinner is like chicken nuggets with green beans, fish sticks with either peas or carrots or whatever dinner I make (pasta with chicken, etc.). And again, bedtime at 9pm! That's basically the routine I have them on. Sometimes for some reason, one doesn't want to go to bed. I rock him/her for a bit and that's he/she needs. Kids really need routine, structure, they need it for good developement. Of course I have days where they stay up a bit longer, they are starting to know 'daddy' is coming soon. My husband walks thru the door from work at 10:45pm. So the second they hear him walking in, (if one or both are up), they run to him with happiness! It's ok ;)