hello P.,
I do have to agree with Kayrne, it took me about 6-8 months to get back into something. I still did not like making love to my husband. And I wanted to find out what is causing this problem. Some is an hormone thing because your body was producing so much when you are pregnant and when you give birth, it is just trying to get itself back into a correct mode. Then it is the mind, you start to think of other things instead of you and ur man. Talk to ur doctor and see what u can do to help yourself get back into things, then look at some toys. I know that may sound funny but once you get over the big toy deal, they you can enjoy the toy as well. Get something that you and ur husband can enjoy together. There is a finger vib that, of course goes over a finger, and it does wounders. Your husband will enjoy pleasuring you and you will enjoy it to. Then get other stuff as well. (toy, videos, gels) what every helps you get back into the mood. You may of not thought of using those things but it will not hurt to try. Who knows you may change ur mind. And the number one thing GIVE SOME TIME TO YOURSELF. Don't forget you, it is very easy for that. Give yourself a day or a half a day to yourself. Take a nice hot bath, paint your nails, watch a show you been wanting to watch. I don't think your husband would mind giving you that time to yourself. And when you are ready to have sex with your man, try to see if you can have the baby visit a family for sometime and give yourselves sometime to do your thing. Start out with a massage, movie, bath, shower with candles or not. Get one of those sexy smelling soap that you both can wash each other or put in the tub. You may have to go to those sex shops but that it ok. Do it together if you can, adds some excitement to it all. But what or how every you go about it.... don't forget to have fun with you. You maybe a mom but you are still a WOMAN!! And there is nothing wrong with that!