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do not worry - you are doing the right thing! DO not stress about sending your baby off to another room if you are not ready. Cause chances are - your little one is not either. My 13 month old is sleeping with us and it is the most priceless part of my day/night. I have her nap in my bed and sleep in my bed at night. I have a futon which is used as a queen size bed in our room and we put it flushed with my husband's bed next to it. This way we have the room to share but not be on top of one another. Our daughter LOVES it because now that she is climbing she goes up and down between her father and mother and finally chooses a spot to sleep. We have a lot of fun with it. Also, she sinks into the bed with a huge smile on her face every single night. You can tell she is so content sleeping with her mommy and daddy. Wouldn't everyone want that kind of security in their life?! I agree with what Patricia said about us being too American in our ideas about cosleeping. It is only america that forces babues to sleep alone. When you give them that security when they are so little, they have a positive connection with sleep - the idea of kids forming sleep disorders if they sleep with their parents is a bunch of garbage - there is no research to back it up. So keep on doing what your doing cause you'll sleep better knowing your baby is right by your side. Enjoy it and treasure it cause it all happens sooooo quickly. They're only babies once!