Hi M., My son, now 23, has a sensory disorder that involves food... among other things. We just learned to go with the flow and when we found something that worked, we held on to it and incorporated into other meals. For example, when my son was a little over a year old, he was still eating only baby cereal and food (the early very smooth stage). Everything else made him gag. One day he got a hold of a paper towel that fell on the floor. This kid, who wouldn't eat anything, tried to eat the paper towel. So I decided to clean my floor very well and rip up a piece of american cheese and drop it on the floor. He ate it. I was able to get him to eat the cheese off of the coffee table within a day and shortly after from a plate. The next step was to put torn up american cheese on everything, from yogurt to quaker maple & brown sugar oatmeal to you name it. The first time he ate a slice of banana, we started putting that on everything. At age 23 he has oatmeal with cheese (cheddar is his favorite) for most breakfasts and bananas & cheese with every dinner. You haven't seen anything until you've seen someone eat spaghetti & meatballs with sliced bananas on top. LOL This isn't a cure-all. He still won't eat crunchy foods, including cookies and most veggies, but he eats quite a bit. And we've gotten past the stage where I've had to cut off anything that could possibly be crunchy (like the brown spots on meat - every try to peel a hot dog?). Interestingly enough, he will chew vitamins. My point is, this is doable and your daughter will most likely eat a variety of foods. Just don't stress out, don't pressure her and ignore the comments and looks from other people. Do what works for your family.
Good luck,
C.