SO..I recently reserched washer and dryers because we were in the market this tax season. I knew I wanted the new HE because it saves energy and many electric companies will give a discount for energy star appliances.
I didn't want to get one with all the digital stuff for the same reason as you just experienced though, more elctronics means more things to go wrong. Plus it increases the cost and while I wanted to go HE, I also wanted to save my nickels and dimes ;-)
I ended up with Kenmore Tumble Action Washer. It has 3.5 cubic feet of space (considered a super capacity) and more settings than I ever hoped for. I got the matching dryer (Kenmore Model 88052) We also got the pedestal drawers for them and it was very affordable for all of it at $1859.00 including installation. The best part was that We got over $300 back in rebates from Sears!!!!
Our are the front loading type but as our oldest daughter (at 10 yo) is required to do her own laundry) we needed something she didn't have to climb on top of to get the clothes in and out of.
I hope this helps.
Good Luck!