Hi Lisa,
I agree with your concerns. As moms, we have to be as careful with what our family uses for personal care as we are with what they eat. I highly recommend the Arbonne Baby Care line. There are no dyes or chemical fragrances (often the source of phthalates), and no mineral oil.
Arbonne products are infused with healthy herbal and botanical ingredients, and they are also vegan, hypoallergenic and pH correct. And they helped clear up my daughter's rash on her arms. I would be happy to send you a sample, which includes hair and body wash, body lotion, herbal diaper rash cream, body oil, and sunscreen SPF 30. I especially like the sunscreen because it doesn't have any funny colors and doesn't make my kids break out.