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i am now in my late 40's. however as a child my parents also had thier hands full. i also had adhd and not knowing it for years until i became an adult in my 30's i was also bi-polar and had a bad chemical inbalance. that is partly what causes bi-polar. personal i would take him to a very special doctor that treats young patients such as your son. and request a mri and cat scan to be done on his head and brain. cause he may have some issues that no one knows about. when he was real young, did he get sick alot or have a lot of fevers or confulsions due to fevers. not that this maybe his case but was mine. and it caused me to have some brain damage. yet to chat with me no one would know it. cause i have learned how to deal with it properly through the years and proper meds. however, this boy sounds like he needs some very special care and a doctor that is a specialist in that catagory. bless you and your family and may God direct you and your son in the right direction. happy holidays to you and family......