J.M.
I was the same way you were or the friends i do have, have such a busy schedule it was hard to meet up and let the kids hang out. I have found a group call the east valley hip mamas off of meetup.com and they are great. I would highly recommend them. They always have so much stuff planned for the parents and kids and sometimes just to have some time to ourselves. Their site is http://hipmama.meetup.com/158 . I have met a lot of great people through this group.