A.T.
Hi T.! As an experienced daycare teacher I can tell you that your son's reaction is totally normal. There is going to be an adjustment period and even after he is used to his daycare he still may have seperation anxiety. I would watch his behavior when you pick him up more than when you drop him off. If he starts getting really upset when you come to get him or if he seems like he has been upset through the day those might be the things that point to a problem. In my experience some children (even children that have been in day care since they were newborns)will be upset when they are dropped off in the morning. Sometimes the parents make it worse by trying to placate the child or by hanging around for an extended time. When you drop him off reassure him that you love him and you will be back in the afternoon and then say bye and leave. A lot of times kids are putting on a show for their parents and as soon as the parents are out of sight they calm down. Also, don't forget that you can call the daycare and check on him during the day! Some parents worry that they will be bothering or annoying the daycare when they do this, but with any reputable daycare this is not the case! Good luck!