S.R.
My husband and 2 of my 3 kids have learning issues including dyslexia, ADHD, some sensory integration stuff when one was younger, and anxiety. We've tested at Shelton School's evaluation center (one of my kids has gone to school there 3 years, and the second will join her there in the fall). They were comprehensive and helpful.
A new option we are using now is an evaluation called QEEG. It's a map of the brain which shows exactly which areas of the brain are operating either significantly faster or slower than the middle range of people whose scans are in 3 large research databases. The test takes about an hour, is painless and non-invasive. It's just boring. The results of my son's QEEG brain map corroborated the testing done at Shelton, but I really like the hard data of the brain map and the neurologist's "brain training" treatment plan. Like hiring a trainer to get you in shape for a marathon, neurotherapy is excercise for your brain. It's not drugs. You may still need other coping mechanisms, but this is the closest thing I've found to really identifying the cause of the difficulties, and also offering something to do to improve them. Medical insurance also covers it.
We use Dr. Johnathan Walker at www.neurotherapydallas.com
We also have used Rusty Lozano at www.onlinebiofeedback.com for biofeedback and interactive metronome therapy. Rusty is great, and does QEEG's and neurotherapy too, but you pay up front then file your own insurance claim for re-imbursement.
Since a diagnosis like ADD is so subjective, any hard data is really appealing to me. The QEEG also offers a built in solution to start with instead of a just a long list of referrals to other specialists.
There is no magic bullet for anyone. Embrace the strengths your son can leverage to be successful, but don't give up looking for things that can make his life easier. There is new research all the time in this field.
Good luck to you both.
S.
SAHM of 3, and married to ADHD energizer bunny (who also has PhD and successful career)