I would kick him to the curb.
AND I would not have sex with him.
AND I would not get pregnant with him, married or not.
Nuff' said.
Its a no brainer.
Loving someone does not make a relationship right nor justify staying in a screwed up relationship.
It means, being able to DISCERN things correctly and knowing a jerk when you see one.
Then end it.
Do not, let this progress.
Do NOT let him... emotionally MANIPULATE you, anymore.
He is not worth it, at all.
He is just a boyfriend.
He is a dime a dozen.
Don't choose... to keep him.
Your Profile says you have a 7 year old daughter. (?)
Well if that were me, I would NOT want my daughter... to be around a scuzzy jerk like that. At all.
CHOOSE to protect your daughter, and be a Mom that she can look up to. Don't be a Mom, that lets Men use her or treat her like a doormat or manipulate.
Think of your daughter, first.
I wouldn't want MY daughter, being with a jerk like that.
How awful.
OF COURSE he is lying. He is playing you for a fool.
DO NOT, have sex with him.
He is screwed up.
You don't have to wait for him to get balls.... YOU can have the balls, to break up with him.
JUST do it.
He is such a jerk... and if you stay with him your daughter... will get screwed up too.
Be a STRONG woman... for daughter and be a good example, for her. Of being a STRONG woman.
Don't be this guy's toy.
Don't give up your body and life... to a guy that is just so.... much of a jerk. Don't barter your body... and get pregnant for a guy like that.
Gee.
TEENAGERS, get pregnant in order to keep their boyfriend.
Then they realize how "wrong" that is. Meanwhile, they are stuck... with a jerk for the rest of their lives, due to custody problems etc.
Don't go there.