I am absolutely AMAZED at the number of women that suggested you look for another man because he doesn't find you perfect. I thought the women here were smarter than that.
How does a man feel about the woman he loves? "Models need perfect lighting, professional makeup and designer clothes to look as good as the average woman does to the man that's in love with her."
Look at what he said when you asked about the "perfect girl" Blonde, thin, taller and a 'C" cup. And you are brunette, DD, 175 lbs and 5'4". IF, repeat, IF (!!!) you wanted to be that way, you are sssooooo close. All you have to do is drop 25 to 35 lbs, dye your hair, and put on high heels. Drop 25 to 35 lbs and your cup size will diminish. Dye your hair blonde and you are there. Get high heels and you will be 5'7" to 5'9" depending on the shoes. You are there. Is it easy to drop 25 to 35 lbs? Of course not! But if you want it bad enough, you are there.
I wanted about the same thing. Beauty and brains and C or "better". I wanted a smart blonde with long hair, blue eyes, ability to play the piano so there would be music in my home and two kids. She graduated #8 out of a class of 1200. The only 'B' she ever got in college was when we were dating and she would ditch class to be with me. (I hated school/college.) She has dark blue eyes, and before we married she promised me she would keep her hair long, and she does, most of the time. Her hair is brunette and isn't what I dreamed about, but I never dreamed I'd have 8 kids either. If she voiced her love for me as often as I do my love for her, I'd be delireously happy. That's life.
The 6-pack I have now is usually carried in my hand where it used to be be hidden under my shirt. My light brown hair is now light gray. I used to run 3 miles in 18 minutes in combat boots and fatigues. Now I park as close as I can and my feet hurt if I walk too far. I carried my wife across the threshhold holding her in my arms and could have done it with one arm. Now I hold her hand and lead her across the threshhold. And I love my wife far more now than I ever did, but not near as much as I will next year.
I'm happy with her and count myself a very lucky guy. I think she is happy too and that is what really matters. We are both delighted to be grand parents. BTW, my youngest two kids called us about a month ago and they both told us they are expecting their first children. #7 will have his first in October. #8 will have his first in November. They live side by side. Their kids will be our 24th and 25th grandkids. We couldn't be happier.
Good luck to you and yours.
@ Sunshine: I didn't suggest she make herself over for her husband. I said "IF, repeat, IF (!!!) ". Please read my post carefully. And my wife's and daughteres and DIL's cup sizes increase or decrease with weight gain or loss. Most womens' do as the breast contains a large amount of fat.