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End Stage Renal Disease (ESRD), a need for dialysis, is an automatice disability qualifier for Medicare approval. Her physician (i.e. nurse) should (can) contact a social worker or case manager with a dialysis clinic to assist with Medicare enrollment. There is very little chance that she will be able to afford COBRA plus the co-pays of her existing insurance without hitting the lifetime max in a very short time frame. Please look on line for the OFFICAL Medicare website for a local office and set up and appointment with them as soon as possible. Then get with her physician for a statment of disability as well as her physician orders (current meds, lab work, history and physical, all diagnosis, and her need for dialysis treatment.
This is a very frustrating expereince. Please understand that up front. You need to record all notes and names from all phones calls with their phone numbers and extentions. They will not be forgiving on due dates so have everything in on time if not early. Make copies of everything that you give the office and send it certified. I know it is an added expense but then they can not say that they have not recieved or it wasn't on time.
I was a nursing home administrator for several years. If you have any questions, please PM me. I do not mind helping.