S.Z.
We had the same problem with my oldest (4 at the time) shortly after our third was born. We decided that intentional accidents were plea for some much needed attention. We set up a special day just for her with my brother and sister-in-law, the favorite Aunt and Uncle. We were very careful not to let on the connection between the accidents and the special attention. The accidents, which were almost three times a week, stopped immediately. Good luck!
A little bout me:
I am very fortunate to be a full time mom to two beautiful girls and a darling boy; Rena 5, Ailiana 3 and Micah 1. My husband is a wonderful dad and spoils me rotten.