Playground Outcast

I totally know how you feel. My daughter went through a period like that at that age also. She would approach kids and introduce herself and they would just ignore her. I even had 2 girls at Chickfila tell her they did not want to play with her they hated her. Little brats!!!! It broke my heart! You might try and point him toward someone his age and also a single kid, they seem to be more approachable when they are alone. Just keep bringing him to the park, it does get better. There will be hits and misses, unfortunately I can't tell you how to not feel bad when other kids are mean, if you find out let me know. :):(

Hi C., I know exactly how you feel. When kids are unkind to our children I think it hurts us even more than them. I have experienced older children doing that same thing, but then some absolutely love little ones. I think you just haven't found the "right" children.

Joining or forming a playgroup is a great way for your child to get interaction with others. If you need help finding one ... try joining Triangle Mommies http://www.trianglemommies.com/ There is great discussion on the forums ... but there is also a schedule of play outings in throughout the Triangle area. If you are not in the Triangle, you may be able to find a similar group in your area.

Good luck,
D.
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I cant imagine how that must hurt you and him! I agree, try tianglemommies.com for some playdates and other stuff to do with other kids. The parents there will probably be more aware of their children's manners.
L.

I'm wondering if it would help if you made friends with the moms or dads that bring those kids to the park.

I agree though, try a different park and see if it goes better.

C.,
I know this must really be a hard time for you and you've gotten some great advise. I'd like to add one more. Is there a Mother's Morning Out program near you? These programs have structured activities and the same children most of the time. Also, do you go to the park at the same time everyday? If you're a regular you'll be able to meet the parents and your son will become more familiar with the kids. It may take a bit of time but the other kids will start to warm up to your son. Also, kids at this age are still very much into parallel play so it is normal for your son to still play beside others and not with them.

Good luck,
L.