Employers these days, in my opinion, think they can get away with anything because of the economy. Not ALL employers ask inappropriate or illegal questions, but many do.
I had an interview last week and the first thing the guy asked me was, "Are you married or single and do you have children?"
I said, "I don't believe you're allowed to ask me that" and he said, I'm not joking....
"I can and WILL ask you anything I want."
Yes I'm single and I do have children. One of them is 24 years old and long on her own. What has that got to do with the job description? Nothing.
The religion question....I guess if you were applying for a position as the deacon of a church or something, that would be relevant.
Many employers won't even get back to you or acknowledge your resume or application. I know that part of it is due to how many people apply for one position and it can be overwhelming, but I've managed offices and interviewed and hired people and I always sent a thank you to every single person who applied. Employers don't do that anymore.
Many even say on their ads that you can apply online only and any "unsolicited" communication will not be considered. That's even businesses 15 minutes away. They don't want to deal with people and if you've had a break in your employment history, many won't even consider you. It doesn't matter what your reasons are because they either don't contact you or they ask inappropriate questions.
I worked for two employers who said, even though they kept it on the downlow, that they would not hire single females because of the chance they might get married and not work there anymore. Even young married women with no kids....they might have a kid and not come back to work.
I don't mean to rant, but I think women get the short end of the stick when it comes to being considered "employable".
I wish I could quote the source, but I saw a thing that said it's women who are the ones remaining in the workforce and in fact trying to support their families on one income after their husbands get laid off or lose their jobs.
Many employers see themselves as being in a position to ask anything and if you answer incorrectly or not at all, they just pitch your paperwork into the trash and go on to the next person.
I have nothing to hide. I would never conceal information, but I think that certain things, unless they pertain to your ability to function and perform your job duties as outlined, are way off base. And, it's almost impossible, in my opinion, to prove any discrimination unless you have it in writing that you were turned down for a position due to religious or marital status, etc.
There are too many people desperate for work right now to ever prove you were discriminated against any more than the next person if they ask the same questions of every applicant.
You can always contact your local labor board and report an employer. Nothing wrong with that. But, you won't get a job out of it. And I personally wouldn't want to work for some people who, economy or not, have lost all professionalism and etiquette.
Sorry for the rant and that's just my personal opinion.
I mean no offense to anyone.