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I'm a huge BEHR fan! (Home Depot). I have painted a good portion of my home with Behr and am in the market to paint another couple rooms in the next month. One thing that I am becoming more conscientious about is low-VOC or no VOC's (chemicals released in the air from your paints). Behr is also becoming more conscientious about this too and creating paints with a lower order. Behr doesn't splatter like some other paints that I have worked with. I love faux finishing and have even found it easy to work with on these occasions. I've also painted quite a few dark walls and I still like it. Make sure you save yourself any painting aggravation by tinting your primer if you are doing any deep reds!
One of my friends loves Benjamin Moore - I tried this on my kitchen and, although the results were wonderful, it was harder to work with than Behr. Still would recommend it.
Another friend just tried Valspar (Lowe's) and was very pleased with the results and ease of using it.
So sorry about your mom - make sure you are getting the yearly tests that keep you healthy and living life to the fullest. I'm sure your mom would want that for you. Being a mom makes you appreciate your mom more, it sure has for me! Speaking from experience - I lost my parents to Cancer (one colon; the other Lung). My sister's, both, had different forms of Cancer (one lung and the other Leukemia - CLL) and are walking miracles! I try to be vigilant with regular check-ups! Our kids need us!
Here is a consumer report that I found interesting. Hope all this helps and happy painting!
http://www.consumersearch.com/www/house_and_home/interior...