T.C.
I haven't read any of the answers, so I hope I'm not a total repeat of everything already said. But, I think one of the best things you can do is bring food to them. Meals: breakfast, lunch, dinner. Snacks, anything other than what they can get there, which is not the best stuff to be stuck eating all the time. Fresh fruit, etc. It gets really expensive buying all that stuff constantly. Do you have a network of people who would be willing to chip in and help with the food? It would be so great if you could have a stream of meals being brought to them. If you have time to go and sit with her on occasion, I'm sure she'd appreciate that. It can be really comforting to just have someone there with you. What about blankets/pillows or even a cot that they can set up at the hospital to catch a quick nap. We've done that for people, too. It was so appreciated. I'm not sure what all they have access to where they are. sometimes for NICUs they have beds for the parents to catch a nap in. It's so sweet for you to be willing to interupt your schedule to minister to your friends. Ask if any errands need to be run for her. You might want to call before you head over to the hospital. Tell her what you are bringing and let her know you'd be happy to stop by the store on the way. Does she need or just want anything? A Starbucks coffee? Something fun like that? I pray that you will be able to find what she needs and bless her.