I currently live in Blythewood and have lived here for over 8 years. We definitely like it and I use to work downtown. I now work in 5 Points (near downtown) and I can get to work in 20-30 minutes, but I don't have to be at work until 9:00 am. The drive is much better from the NE than from the Irmo/Harbison area. It is growing a whole lot out here and many stores, restaurants, etc are popping up everywhere. The school district is very good.
I've been using Trinity UMC Child Care Center for the last 8 years (my 8 year old and 4 year old). They are great, although there may be a waiting list. Their telephone number is ###-###-####. I've also heard good things about Corn Crib Daycare ###-###-#### and Candle Lakes Daycare ###-###-#### are good too.
My oldest daughter is at Bethel Hanberry Elementary school in Blythewood and it's been great! She's in 2nd grade and started there in kindergarten. She's also in the after school program and in the summer program at Trinity UMC CCC. So depending on where you move to Blythewood would depend on the school your son would attend. There's also Round Top Elementary that is in the Blythewood that I hear is good too.
My husband & I were separated for a while and I lived in the NE in a neighborhood called Lake Carolina last summer. It was a very nice neighborhood with different levels of housing (neighborhoods). Their elementary school is actually inside of the neighborhood. I've also heard good things about it too.
I wish you luck and hope you find your new home without too much trouble. If you are looking at building or buying a new home, Essex Homes is a great quality builder for the price and they have homes in Blythewood and NE.
S.