I read an article a while back that said stay at home moms have shorter life expectancys than moms who work outside the home b/c of long periods of being exposed to all the toxic chemicals from their household cleaners! Then I read an article by Kelly Preston (John Travolta's wife) on their son and kawasaki disease -- that was enough to have me make the switch and make a choice to become educated on what I use in my home! You can learn a lot from this site:
http://www.checnet.org/healthehouse/virtualhouse/index.asp
I order my laundry detergent and dishwasher detergent from here:
http://www.greenhome.com/
We use the Charlies Soap for our laundry and I have been VERY impressed with it!! You use very little and it leaves no residue on your clothes. I realized, after using Charlies soap for a while, that I never actually knew what clean clothes smelled like, only what clothes full of perfumes smelled like.
Overall Charlies soap is a better value than the seventh generation laundry detergent. You pay more for seventh generation and get less.
I do use the mold & mildew and tub & tile products on their site as well (they're vegetable based), but overall I mostly use vinegar for everything. It is inexpensive, non toxic, and is a natural disinfectant.
I don't use Meleca products b/c we have 2 cats and tea tree oil is toxic to cats.
We use Seventh Generation dish soap as well. It doesn't work as good as dawn, but a little extra elbow grease solves that problem.
Vinegar can also be used in your steam cleaner (most models) to clean your carpets with, it disinfects them, fluffs up the fibers, and is so much safer than carpet cleaners.
And here is a site w/ 131 uses for vinegar!
http://tinyurl.com/2zo3hy
Good luck to you!!
--S.