Hi P.,
I want to congradulate you on a fine job breastfeeding so far. It is actually harder than some people say but it has it's easier benefits as well as health benefits. It does require a little work which is why many people choose to not even try or don't make it very far. Your baby is changing everyday and her body is giving her cues to tell her when she needs to eat or not. This age, combined with teething is a time when she isn't growing much or will start thinning out from what I call the "five month fats". Most babies reach their chubbiest at about 5 months. At 7 months, they most likely will have learned to crawl and are moving around a lot more and eating less, causing them to start to look more like a toddler rather than a blob of little rolls. I believe this was God's carefully thought out plan to allow babies to bulk up for the active, uncomfortable ( teething) stage ahead. She simply doesn't need or desire to eat at much. Although she may continue to turn to you to eat and then 30 seconds later is dropping off to go or is frustrated and cries, she is mainly seeking the comfort or nursing and then wants to play again or have your attention. Moms who breastfeed until their kids are 2 or 3 can tell you that once or twice a day 9 at bedtime usually) is the only time they nurse long enough to actually get a feeding, but during the day, those babies will turn to mom for all of 10 seconds and it's like you have a different child, more calm, relaxed and able to handle the world. You can try offering tylenol 20 minutes before a normal long feeding, especially in the evening. Avoid the baby orajel type products, dentists say stay away from them. You can give her one of those net baby food thingy's with frozen baby carrots or bananas in them. You can even put a tablespoon or two of yogurt or smashed fruit or sweet potatoe and freeze the whole net, allowing her to suck on the frozen goodness and calm her inflamed gums. Then, wipe her face quick and nurse her. The little food will stimulate her appetite and will numb her gums a bit. She may nurse longer. I wouldn't worry about it much. She doesn't need formula and even pumping will only diminish your milk supply and you will end up quitting all together. If you have been pumping and giving her bottles, she is learning that that is faster and will insist on using a bottle, the best to get her to lose her bottle memories is to just quit. She will be a bear for about three days, but will learn that if she wants to eat, she needs to settle down and calmly and slowly nurse, like she used to. This is the best way to give her ALL of the benefits of breatfeeding, not only in nutrition, but in the emotional bond and relaxation that it brings. Bottle fed babies can still have cuddle time, but it does lead to a faster, more distracted feeding session. Teach her now to slow down and relax as often as possible. Good Luck, whatever you decide it will be best because you are choosing so out of love and concern. Best of wishes. I would suggest joining a breast feeding support group and an attachment parenting group. You may be the one to encourage a mom with a tiny one to keep at it when they see you BF.