My 10 Month Old Is SCREAMING Loudly, How Do I Stop This???? HELP!

Updated on November 24, 2008
J.M. asks from McKinney, TX
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My DD has developed this lovely habit of letting out a loud scream whenever she feels like it. She just started a week and a half ago. I watch my friends baby a few days a week and her babies cry is actually a high pitched scream. I try to tend to him quickly so my DD doesn't hear it and pick up screaming, however, over a week ago when he was crying she mimmicked him and hasn't stopped since!!!! It is embarrassing when you are in the store and she just decides to let out a loud piercing scream! I am at my wits end and don't know what to do. I tell her a firm no and sometimes place my hand on her mouth to show her what I am saying no too. Has anyone experienced this and is their any method that would help me teach her to stop the screaming! Please help!

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J.T.

answers from Dallas on

My son did the same thing. His scream sounded more like a squeal--so high-pitched he could have been used by scientists to communicate with dolphins! Unfortunately, no matter how much I told him "no" he did it anyway. We eventually figured out that he did it less once we started ignoring him. Your DD probably likes that this new thing she does brings her attention. Take that away and she'll probably stop. Good luck. BTW, I'd get some earplugs for in the car! :)

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L.H.

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My daughter (who's now 9) did this around 10 months. I have a very low tolerance for loud piercing noises so I knew I had to do something. I started teaching her sign language. She picked up on it immediately and still knows her signs. She was able to communicate with me when she was hungry, thirsty, wanted more to eat, when she had had enough to eat and even to say she was sorry. You don't have to teach your child a huge number of signs in order to be effective. If it's attention she wants, it will be a different story. I remember having to leave a restaurant once when she was doing her screaming thing. After sign language we didn't have a problem again. It's still nice because if she's doing something I don't want her to do in public I can sign to her and she will stop. That way I don't have to reprimand her in front of her friends but the behavior that needs to stop stops. It's also helpful when I need to remind her to say thanks for something or whatever.

There are all kinds of signing dvds even at the library. The one I used was called Baby Signs. And no, it didn't delay her speech.

Blessings!

L.

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M.H.

answers from Dallas on

My DD started that at about that age too. We where in the middle of a shopping run at Target when she decided to give her lungs a try! It was sooo embarassing at the time and we had to leave, but its one of those funny memories that i look back on now.

I am sure she will grow out of it, maybe give her oppurtunity to practice in a safe and comfertable environment (outside, or in h play room, or her bed room?).

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C.T.

answers from Dallas on

My son did this around the same age and was around no other babies. I asked the pedi and he said some kids do this and to ignore it. Any attention given to it and it will encourage him to do it more. I had forgotten all about his screaming until I read your letter. It will pass.

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L.S.

answers from Dallas on

When my friend was breast feeding and her dtr was biting, she would say no and pull a small patch of hair at the nape of the babies neck. It wasn't hard enough to hurt to bad, but hurt enough to get the point across of "NO" with a little negative feedback. My friend didn't like slapping her hand for such a small thing like biting her, but the baby would laugh and think it was funny. So, when the baby bit, she said no, pulled the hair and stopped nursing. The baby got the picture quickly enough to understand the little bit of pain associated with no. Might be worth a try to discourage bad behavior and reinforce No.
Good luck,
L.

B.C.

answers from Dallas on

It's just new, so she thinks it's cool. Just ignore her. She'll find out something new she can do soon enough and quit with the screams.

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J.G.

answers from Dallas on

Give her a place to scream, make it a game. Take her outside and scream with her. Then go into the house and scream in a whisper. Show her the difference. A child’s voice box is just like any other muscle; they have to learn how to use it.
You can also teach her a song or another sound to make to give her release when she needs. Teach her to click her tongue and tell her that is appropriate or whistle whatever she can do.

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