S.R.
M. sorry to hear of your situation but with out all of the info on it i can only base your opinion off of your own words you wrote. Please don't be offended but i am a mother of two beautiful children who i would walk to the end of the earth for. I for one would of never left my children in a atmosphere where there mother feared there father or would've left them period....This is coming from a single mother of two who left my husband and had nothing but my personal belongings and that just so happened to include my children.. Money should not be an issue if i understand you correctly you are living at your parents due to financial problems .WHAT about your children is the house to small or something? There is help out there for mom's out there in your situation.I would suggest get your self a lawyer. I can not imagine walking out the door leaving the children behind. Shame on you!!Do you know when you walk out the door with out your children you are giving the father the rights and responsability of children that's why he's making the calls on there behalf..And just too clue you in today as we speak i just finished a long custody battle against my husband who left and i walked away today with sole legal and physical custody of my children. And through it all i've used every penny i earned to get them and i lost a vehicle and almost my home through all this.Good luck
please don't think im a mean person but i was a child who's mother left me with my father and i think it's a sin. And yes i don't know your whole story but if you want you can email me at ____@____.com i am willing to talk to you.