Maybe I misunderstood. Are you saying they expected your child to complete all of this homework in 1 night? That would have been too much for one night, but giving you all a few days or the week to finish would make more sense.
Also keep in mind, the Costco trip, couldn't it be scheduled for another night?
If she s that upset, could be she needs more recovery time, she may still not feel well.
you do not like the education your child is reciving or do not think your child can or should do make up work, tell the teacher.
If you expect the rest of the class to review or have to go over what your child missed, maybe you should home school.
What is it you do not believe in.
Children can miss school and will through osmosis know what they missed.do you see homework as punishment for students and or parents?
Will you be upset later if your child gets a low grade due to incorrect answers or missing a concept?
Parents forget that learning in school is happening every day.
Teachers have teaching plans for everyday. It is like taking medication, if you skip a day, you may be ok, but if you do not make up for what is missed, be prepared to not have the outcome you expected. Miss 2 days and sometimes, you have to start from the beginning.
I recall our daughter was ill and missed school. This happened go be the time they were learning Roman Numerals. Not a big deal, but imagine if she had not done that homework and been introduced to this. Not a big deal except that every once in a while Roman numerals show up in literature or are parts of a painings , part of history lessons.. This was 3rd grade at the beginning of the school year.
You set the tone for what your child thinks about their education. If you think homework is not a big deal, then find schools or find curriculum that follows your feelings. But do not be surprised that the students who do their homework as well as are encouraged by parents to also do enhancement learning at home end up having children that surpass expectations all the way through college and a respect and love of learning for a lifetime.
Do you have an education degree or background? Maybe this is why you are not worried? You think you could in the future help with missed concepts? Your experience with students is that they do not like homework? For most students, homework is just the finishing up of their school day and a way to practice what was learned and an opportunity to show parents what their children are learning. Your child's education takes a team.