C.W.
I say we get our kids together and see how they hit it off. I am a SAHM as well (I waitress a couple nights a week) and most of my friends here with children work during the day, so my days are filled with adventures with my 16month old son. He does well with children of all ages when he gets a chance to play with his little friends.
I live off Bush River Rd and am 28. I'm engaged to my child's father (we moved to Columbia together), and we don't have any family here either. We're originally from NC and I graduated from UNC-Chapel Hill in 2000. Let me know if you want to meet, I could use some adult interaction too!