A.
Hi G.,
Here is an idea for the future since you have more than 2 kids.I came from a family of 5 and this seemed to work out exceptionally well for my parents. If you think you can handle it. Since all of our birthdays were in the fall/winter months which makes it harder to have something outside, this worked. Pick one day in the summer time to have a multi-kid birthday party for all kids at the same time. Have them invite as many number of friends each per your discretion. Have a pool, slip-slide, water games, water blasters, ring toss, clown, balloon twister, princesses, what ever the kids are into. Do it like a big family barbeque and either have 1 large cake or individual cakes for each child. This is a lot to handle in one day, but then again it is all over in one day. Then on each of the kids actual birthday you just have a little immediate family gathering with cake and 1 little present or their big present. I guess it's a matter of liking and I enjoyed it, especially when the yard was loaded with kids and fun and games, etc. I hope this makes sense to you. Good Luck, A.