A., my first question is are you ok with your son sleeping with you? It seems everyone suggests that you get him his own bed, but if you enjoy him in your bed why? I too have a 7 month old that does not sleep very deeply. She begins the night in her crib, but if the heater kicks on, or the dog goes bumping around in her room at night she wakes up. I work 10-12 hour days, and do not have the time or energy to fight with her at night, so I just go get her and bring her to bed. Recently she has been on beneadril for an allergy, and so she is sleeping through the night, and what I have found is that I don't sleep as well! I thought I sleep great once she slept on her own, but I don't. Just like when my husband is gone. She is a part of our family and we love having her in our bed. This is my time with her and I treasure it. If you and your husband are ok with him in your bed, don't stress. he won't grow up to be weird, or even in your bed at 10. I slept with my parents until I was 3, and then just as easily moved into my own bed. My brother and sister also co-slept and my parents had no problem moving them into their own beds when they got a bit older. We are all very well adjusted and very confident with strong relationships with our parents. Your little guy is only little for a short time, take advantage of it. Soon enough he will not want you to hug him in public... cuddle and love him. It makes him feel secure. Think about it this way, would you like to sleep in a separate room without your husband? No. So why would your child that loves you more than any thing in his entire little life want to sleep alone without you? I sometime run into people that make me feel bad for our choice to co-sleep they try to fill me with doubt about the future. I encourage you, if you are happy with co-sleeping don't let others pressure you to conform to the "norm".