M.G.
Hi J.. I have 2 older boys that I started them out with the Leap Pads. And they are now being used by my 4 year old. I also have the fridge magnets for phonics. We started out with the single letter one for one Christmas and the next he was ready for the 3 letter one. He has really learned his sounds with it and his alphabet. We now have the Leap Frog videos and he is catching on with them as well. Another system we picked up was a computer thingy, you plug it into the USB and the kids can only go to the pre programmed character areas. This allows them to learn the pc and there are educational games for them too.
Good luck.
M.