Im over it too!! lol. I am a total review reader and it takes me forever to decide because of this. We just actually decided to not get our oldest (4) the leappad or the vtech thing. There were some good comparative reviews on amazon, but neither really had what we wanted, so we are opting to get a "family ipad" so they can play educational games, watch movies ect, under our supervision and then we can use it too!
We did by him the FisherPrice ixl last year for christmas and he didnt play with it much until recently when his younger brother has taken an interest! Now he plays with it everyday, but the games for it (and the leap pad ect) are so expensive for something that probably wont be of interest in a couple years. So, although its nice for the occasional long car ride, Im not sure I would buy it again.
We are going to probably invest in the tag reader and some books, and they have an interactive map that I think my kids would like too. Its not new, but at least I feel like they are learning something important, like reading skills! Other than that, santa is stumped this year! If you think of any more good ideas, please share them!!
Good luck!