Kissing... with Tongue?

Updated on November 01, 2011
L.P. asks from Uniontown, PA
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Love it?

Hate it?

I used to be totally big on kissing, you know, the tongue-filled make-out kind... it was such a turn on for me... It could be so intimate or passionate, or both! I loveD it...

But the older I get, the less enchanted I am with it... can't seem to get into it like I used to... doesn't seem to have the same effect on me, which is kind of disappointing to me, since I used to love it so much... I know it's probably a mindset and in my head, like most things, but I was just wondering what you all think about kissing...

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Faith, I'm with ya... the sucking lips thing... yummy. Not lots of sloppy, face-eating (red, I lol'd at that!) tongue! LOL But a little tongue and some lip sucking is another story... ;)

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H.V.

answers from Cleveland on

Ugh I love kissing my husband.

The first time we kissed, I swear i was going to faint
Every time we REALLY kiss, I still get that weak in the knees feeling.
I still think my favorite is just "making out" with my husband.
just kissing and kissing and kissing.
I love it all. Tongue or not, all depends on how he's kissing me.

My husband works till 7...is it 7 yet? hahah

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T.K.

answers from Dallas on

I avoid it because that's seen as a "green light" by my husband. But when we are in the act I actaully do hot passionate kissing. It makes it feel more like love and less like sex. Like he's having sex with ME, not just having sex.

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S.S.

answers from Cincinnati on

with my hubby I hate it. I love him but he is not a good kisser. he drools to much lol! but thats ok because there are some other things he does really really well with his toungue!

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T.G.

answers from Pueblo on

I love kissing... EVERYWHERE...(he he..) and EVERY KIND..(butterfly, tongue, wet, mommy ones...them ALL)... But honestly... we really enjoy kissing.. I kiss my husband everyday... and everyday we have a passionate kiss before we leave for work... first of all it leaves us wanting more... and I know I want him to know that I love him emmencely...(sp).
Sometimes instead of going "all the way" we will just make out like we did in highschool... because those were the days that you were not ready to do that and making out was enough... so we try to keep rekindling that..
We will make-out to leave us wanting more... Try it.. and when you finallly are intimiate... its explosive..
P.S. Fresh breath is a plus...; ) I will tell my husband...God, your lips taste delicious... ; ).. Good Luck momma... Keep on kissing... ; )

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A.C.

answers from Jacksonville on

LOVE KISSING! Of all kinds :)

Maybe you don't like it so much anymore bc you think it will lead to sex? (I don't mean that to be rude, just an observation based on your previous post). I think it's good to make-out, it makes me feel young and in love and it's so fun. If it's not something you're into, that's ok. There are tons of other ways to show affection.

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A.A.

answers from Las Vegas on

tongue lots of it! I couldn't imagine kissing my husband any other way:)

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M.M.

answers from Tucson on

I am grossed out by the slobber of it all. I wipe my face after a kiss and i have a really strong sense of smell, so i smell spit which grosses me out. I can do it after both of us have showered and brushed our teeth, but other than that. ICK.....

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H.G.

answers from Dallas on

Im laughin over here ladies! I lobe to kiss and long as im not choking on it, bring on the tongue!

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A.C.

answers from Salt Lake City on

L., I am with you!
Thing is, I get easily grossed out by germs and bodily fluids. Kissing with the tongue SEEMS sexy, in my mind... just like a lot of other things. But then in real life, not so much. Unless I am drunk ;)

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K.I.

answers from Los Angeles on

I think once you have been married or in a relationship for a long time sometimes the passionate kissing falls by the wayside...

We don't do it as much as we used to, like when we first started dating, but when we do kiss like that, it still gets me all fired up! I think it's one of those things...if you give it some time and not over-do it and then try it again after awhile, it starts being exciting again...the passion comes back, ya know?

~One of my favorites still...real kissing, slow and lots of tongue...makes me feel young and in love and all ga-ga inside!

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J.K.

answers from Kansas City on

L. just wanted to say thanks for asking this question, I had so much fun reading the responses, I was literally cracking up!!!!

I'm one of the ones that love it..............

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S.B.

answers from Topeka on

I still like it, but we don't ever do it =( sniff sniff

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C.M.

answers from New York on

I love to kiss. Although I haven't in quite some time, I'm sure once I do it again, I will feel the same way. I like the passion behind it. The fact that I'm pretty good at it, doesn't hurt the situation either. Lol

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F.H.

answers from Phoenix on

I sort of see what you're saying. One of the favorite parts of my hubby is his mouth and lips...but now that I think about it, I don't think we really kiss with a bunch of tongue...now that I visualize it...it reminds me of porno's!!! Hahahaha!! But anyway, I think we more suck lips if that makes sense. He is so sexy and such a good kisser....mmmmm....wonder if he's available for a nooner???!!!! LOL!!!

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N.G.

answers from Dallas on

My husband is a terrible kisser, IMO, that's one thing I would change about him, LOL!

So I'm not a huge fan of the kissing.

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F.M.

answers from Lincoln on

depends on what kind of mood i am in. if i am really horny, love lots of tongue. if i am in a really romantic mood, i like lots of pecks and less tongue. i agree with you, the older i get, the less i like it too. i think it can go either way. just b/c you are a guy or girl doesnt mean you always have to french kiss, its not right or wrong, it is just what you like!

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J.J.

answers from Los Angeles on

Depends on the mood & how heated the moment. I think about plague & mouth germs, so if its not so heated, there will be no tongue going on, and I wipe my mouth if I feel any "wetness" which is almost always. My soon to be Dh, is the only one Ive even french kissed, it has always seemed gross to me.

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M.J.

answers from Dover on

You know, for the first several years I was with my husband there was tonssss of kissing, all sorts, but then it did kind of fall by the wayside. Recently it's kind of picked back up though not every time, and that's ok. Not every time is crazy passionate & all extended, but boy when it is, look out!

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D.P.

answers from Pittsburgh on

Ewe. I'm with you. Seems a little "too desperate" to me. Now that I'm a grown up. :)

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E.B.

answers from Seattle on

Gross! I hate it. I am a bit of a germ freak though. I wont even really share food or straws with my kids or spouse.

My hubby knew full well when he got hitched it was not my bag!! I am more of a love peck person!! or a good hug....no tongue please;)

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V.W.

answers from Minneapolis on

I HATE using tongue. Hate it... Hate it, hate it, hate it.

Luckily for me my boyfriend doesn't mind that I hate it so much :)

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S.W.

answers from Minneapolis on

I love kissing! But it has to be with a guy that's good at it! Some are not. I don't get beyond the first kiss if it's not really good. I'm lucky to have had good kissers in my life!

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C.T.

answers from Detroit on

i don;t to much care for it!

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R..

answers from Chattanooga on

Depends on the guy.

My first 'make out' boyfriend (others just got pecks...lol) used lots of tongue. But it was really good! We could sit and make out for quite a while. lol.

But my fiance (who I am with now, and is the only guy I have ever had sex with) can't kiss with a lot of tongue... some, but not a lot. It's more like he's trying to eat my face... so we stick to less-tongue kissing. lol. He has some pretty good techniques that involve my neck and ears though, so that makes up for it! ;)

(I really hope he doesn't read this... lol.)

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J.M.

answers from Montgomery on

Well it's normal for TEENS to do some of them start out with tounge and some just donot do it at all

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K.C.

answers from Cleveland on

I will kiss with the tongue sometimes with my husband. I will do it if we are in the mood to have sex too. We sometimes get close to the point we are swallowing each other and choking sometimes.

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