I think that it's hilarious that you believe in having the moments but not in the people who have the moments. Yeah, I don't follow that.
I can always tell when someone is tapping into my spirit, because I get a certain kind of headache. I am able to will it away by closing myself off. One day I went to the bathroom while my husband was in the living room. The big TV backed right up against the bathroom wall. Because I was pregnant, I would usually let my husband know when I'd be out of sight for a while, so that he might check on me if I'm gone too long. I forgot to do that this time and wanted his attention. There was no way that he would have heard me had I called out to him, so I didn't try. I just sat there and visualized my energy transferring to him. I actually watched it go from my head and through the wall to where he was sitting on the sofa, to his head. I was thinking, "Come check on me." After a very few minutes, he came to the bathroom and asked if I was okay. He looked puzzled and told me that he had a big headache that had come upon him suddenly, just before the words "Check on me" entered his mind. He knew that the headache wasn't due to hunger or caffeine withdrawal. I shut things down and got rid of his headache. He asked me not to do that again, and I apologized and promised that I wouldn't unless there is an urgent need.
That kind of thing happens all the time, so he was able to laugh it off.
At the end of my father's final day, I told my mother and uncle that that would be the night so to stay at his side. My father and I communicated psychicly all my life, and we had had our moment that day. I couldn't bear to be there in his final minutes, so I made sure that they were there and he wasn't alone.