JFF: I'm in a Pissy Mood. Anyone Else?

I'm repeating the same thing over and over....TO EVERYONE lately.....Do I speak another language because I swear I'm saying it in English?! JUST LISTEN the FIRST time.....

My husband took my car this morning so I go to get in his old truck and realize the tags are out and so is the defrost onthe drivers side ! ugh. Have to take the kids to the sitter. Get there and she doesn't answer the door. Stand there 10 minutes, making me late to work. ugggh are you kidding me? Get to work and the 1st words out of my bosses mouth are mean and terrible. uugggh, what a way to start the day.

A friend who lives in Honolulu posted on Facebook about some great fares from the mainland to Hawaii, where we have a vacation planned in 6 months. I was super excited, went to the website, which seems to be crashing because EVERYONE is trying to make reservations, apparently! Bleh.

I have a headache that won't go away.

And I think it would actually be impossible to be less motivated at work. It's hard to even sit here and pretend to be doing real work. I have TONS of work to do, and zero motivation to get any of it done. Which is making me cranky and stressed out.

Hmph.

I'm really pissed off too. So pissed off that I can't even talk about it.

Martinis for sure. Or maybe a nice soothing lobotomy.

I currently sound like the tasmanian devil from looney toons spluttering about grumbling.

Whatever happened to the days when husbands misbehaved they were fed a steady diet of tripe and boiled hay until they removed their collective heads from their...

I am I am!!! Oh Oh.. Me Me... (Hands flailing in the air like a little kid in school saying "pick me pick me". Hehe

Been one of them days. Hubby was gone last week for 6 days, finally gets home Sunday and off he leaves again to go golfing with his BIL. Joy.. home alone again with the kids (not that I don't love the kids.. just was looking forward to some other adult interaction/conversations). Then Monday we get into an argument over our families and how we all of a sudden can not get along with anyone - but according to hubby it is all me! It is my attitude that has torn everyone apart. So, I am sure everyone knows how that is.. being blamed for something you may have slightly done.. not fully blown like they make it out to be.

Anyways, Hubby left again for out of town and once again I am left alone, tired, and feeling crappy.

Thanks for letting me vent, heheh :P

But you live in Hawaii!!!!! How can you be pissed off in paradise???
I'm in a pissy mood myself, but I live in Illinois where we had the cloudiest/rainiest April on record and May is looking to be just as crappy. Cheers!

I am on a pissy mood as well...

I am going to eldest son's graduation from college (and his commissioning) this weekend...I am SO proud of HIM!!!!

BUT...will have to 'paint' a smile on my face as ex will be there...and last week was in court with him for arrearages in CS...again...

*sigh*

I will go...I WILL look wonderful...I will be SO proud of my son...

and I will refrain from strangling ex...

makes me feel pissy all the same...

This moment should have been so different...

**sigh**

Michele/cat

I am pissy over shuft that happened yesterday! I am glad it is not just me. It feels like bad PMS, but I know it is not. I think it is stress. i think it all is coming at me very fast! and I just cant handle it all so I am pissy!!!!!

Thank you ! i have needed to get that out! I cant handle anymore right now!! my plate is full and I need to get stuff finished before more is tossed on me!!

NO, I NEVER would've GUESSED you're in a bad mood today Susan!

The important thing is you're not bitter towards your HUSBAND about it all!!

I'll bet you can hardly WAIT til he gets home from work! I can feel the love ALREADY!

BAHAWAHA!!

Well, I'm not grouchy today, but I WAS pretty pissed off at the Dumb Man this weekend. Luckily for the sake of world peace, I got over it.

:(

We're in the process of selling our house and moving and all I've done lately is work and clean! My Bday was May 1st and I didn't even get a card from my kids - can't expect that Mother's Day will be any different. Hubby is too distracted to make sure that they make me cards or something. I just got done (well about an hour ago) scrubbing and mopping the basement, YUCK! I put the kids to bed and slammed 2 vodka tonics and suprisingly am not feeling so pissy anymore........I still have a day worth of dishes to do though.......:(

hopefully by now you're better, considering it's 930p central time...but my first thought was "oh no! poor susan! you're always so happy!" even level-headed, good advice giving susan has bad days! :)
not saying this to be sarcastic, just being sweet/funny, kay? :)
and whatta jackass thing for your husband to say anyway? that single mom w/all her success & what not...yeah, well, one thing i recently learned...
Don't compare your insides to someone's outsides.
BEST ADVICE EVER.
(and yes i got that from therapy - lol!) :)

LOL.. So last night before bed my 10 year old and my husband start to argue HEATEDLY. I had just fell asleep when the 10 year old goes upstairs with my daughters laptop. She was supposed to be in bed. But she wanted to wait for a phone call from one of our older adult daughters. It was late and she's not supposed to play with her sisters laptop now that she has her own. I woke up to the argument and told them both off for their behavior.

This morning when I'm barely awake my husband comes shaking the phone at me and telling me how the phone never rang and that whole argument was for nothing. He proceeds to tell me how I'm to tell one daughter this or that and the other one this or that. Sometimes I wish it was legal and ethical and moral to slap him silly. If he's proud of the kids he's the best daddy in the world. If he's upset with the kids he just can't understand why I don't get them under control.

As for the rest of the day, I'm good. It's not good to think on these negative things anyway. It gives a person heartburn! I just ate a mushroom and swiss burger and ice cream.

I'm pissy about your husband. And Irene O's husband. I actually like my husband today.

Slightly p.o.ed at my soccer team, who got a better player while I was out with a leg injury, and they now want her more than me, even though I've been with them for 6 years.

I am pissy b/c I am tired of being sick! I have had strep 2x in the last 8 weeks and have found out that I have mono. I DO NOT have time to have mono. I am tired, pissy, crampy, tired, headachey, hungry, tired and I have to change my mood so I can go and sit out in the rain and watch my sweet boy play baseball tonight!

That my husband, his brother, and I'm sure his mother think I'm a racist because I'm conservative and not liberal. I wouldn't care if Obama was a pink giraffe I wouldn't vote for him. I also wouldn't vote for Sarah Palin and I'm praying she doesn't run - I would however like a run out of Allen West! Shocker, he's a black man! I vote on the issues and not the person - it boils down to being against people though because only one from each party runs in the end. But yea, that's my big pissu moment right now!

I don't know about pissy, but I am a little annoyed with your husband. I've read and "flowered" many of your posts and I feel like I have a pretty good grip on your personality... I think your husband is a fool for speaking to you that way and I don't think you deserved that.

Keep being who you are. We like you that way, and we know that deep inside, your husband does too. But we can be pissed at him for a little while.

Hope tomorrow is better. (hug)

Today--there's not even enough room to list it all. The day from HELL. Cannot wait til bedtime.

Here's to a better tomorrow! Cheers!

I would be so pissed off about what your husband said.

But, I would have loved to have thunder and lightning storms and power outages. Getting rained on would be great (live in AZ where there is rarely rain or storms). That would make my week.

Mothers day will be sad, my mom recently passed away and I know this will be yet another hard 1st without her (although its not like we celebrated it anyway).

The week does have time to turn around. Hopefully it does!

I am in a super royal pissy mood too. My oldest missed a rehearsal for Singers ( which is the show choir he was in) and because he missed a rehearsal he is out...so no Singers next year. I thought it was important to him, but obviously he is too irresponsible. I am tired of his being irresponsible and at age 15 I don't really know what more I can do to make him a more responsible person when he so obviously does not care.
My youngest will be 4 in June, he won't try to go potty for me and I am beginning to think we will never get potty training down. Also it has been wet and rainy for days on end and we get two nice days to tease us then back to rain, I try and be nice and take Alex ( the soon to be 4 yr old) outside to play and all he wants to do is get into the red ant hill ( big no no ) or play in the giant mud puddle ( that should not really be an issue because he shouldn't be that close to the road)
I am just frustrated and tired of feeling like a single parent...I start a new cleaning job tonight and I have to leave the kids at home, my SO will be home but asleep...I hate the idea of the entire time i am at work being worried about whether or not Alex goes to bed, or if the 15 yr old is actually watching him.
Yep, generally pissy!

Yes I am pissy too. Not sure why. A lot going on in our lives right now.
I completely understand!
May your week get better!
Take some down time if you get a chance and just rest for a few mins.
Treat yourself to something small (mocha, frozen yogurt w/topping, buy yourself some flowers, get a library book to read in your spare time ha ha).

I am pissy about everyday it seems I have to stop at the grocery store after I get off and make sure that I make it to daycare in time so I can rush home and cook dinner and do the laundary while my boys are running around making messes right behind me. sigh.......4 of them are my step-sons love them to death but oh my they are some messy kids....little do they know I am working on a list of rules LOL

Just got out tax return back yesterday. It will pay off the interest to our late loans and leave $.47 left over. If we don't use it for that then our house and only van ( have 5 kids and work 25 miles away so no car in not an option) or the bank starts legal action on taking them back. My hubby wont talk about what to do ( will talk about everything else as long as its not money) The bill collectors wont stop calling. My ex has cut my 14 yr old son out of his life and I deal with the burst of anger taken out on me on a regualr basis. My boss was an a$$ today. I just want to sit and cry but my 5 kiddos are hyper and bouncing off the walls and all want mom's attention at once. When peace and quiet sounds really good. Mothers day is coming up and the next day is the 7 yr anniv of loosing my Grandma. So I have been trying to be there for my mom when all I get is the cold shoulder.... Mother Nature needs to have a hot flash soon cause Im sick of this 40 degree weather...

But on the plus side I have 5 kiddo and a husband who loves me as much as I love them! Everyone is healthy. The sun did come out for about an hour today. My hubby just brought me dinner he cooked while I was on here :) Knowing that some day I will look back on all of this and know I became stronger for dealing with it all in this craziness I call life! HOPEFULLY

Only because it's you, Susan, did I backtrack to read your previous post.:)
If you'd put me on the phone with your husband after that, he would have come away without an ear (or part of his behind, take your pick) because I would've chewed it off.

You know, I'm kind of pissy for the very reason you are upset with what your husband said. I DO have a business out of my home, and I work my butt off. Like most stay-at-home moms, I *am never not at work*. I 'get' to do it all, and today preschool was great, but I just wanted to do NONE of it. I wanted to weed in the garden and play with my kid and let the dishes sit, to have a nice, relaxed cup of tea this morning instead of drinking it in between the tasks of washing dishes, prepping our Mother's Day activity, and trying to get Kiddo ready for school. I'm irritated that between preschool and childcare expenses, we are losing money, so that I had to call my husband for a judgment call on "do we have enough money for me to go grab a beer on the walk home from the video store?" One of those days, and so glad he said 'yes'. I work hard enough that this should not be a question I have to ask.

And I'm peeved that I can't listen to NPR without hearing the words "shot", "killed" and "dead" every five minutes. ugh. and the bickering about the whole damn thing. Don't we know already that it takes 100 years for the truth to out?

You have every right to be pissy. what an a$$. and the friend too.

I hear you! I am in a bad mode to because I found out that a store here in town is cashing checks I have written them for more then the written amount, causing me to go overdraft in my bank account

Well...it's not my husband (this time)! I got "chewed" out by two teachers that I work with.

Yesterday, I forgot to make playdoh and bring it to school. The lead teacher had already forgotten that I was supposed to bring it in and had set something up. When I apologized, she said that I really needed to bring it in the next day (told me this about 3 times) because it was really important. When I make playdoh we use it 3 or 4 times in a month and then make another batch so I can't figure out what the big deal was.

I'm in charge of leading the kids that stay after school into the bathroom to wash hands and into the kitchen for lunch. Most everyday we are the first ones in the kitchen and wait several minutes for the other classes to arrive. Today, I had a girl that does everything v-e-r-y s-l-o-w-l-y, if you catch my drift. She had something bothering her in her shoe, so while the others were washing hands I told her to take off her shoe and check it out. By the time she was finished shaking it out and putting it back on, everyone had finished washing their hands. She still had to wash her hands. THen we walked into the kitchen. Immediately, the teacher that is in charge of kids that stay late asked me in a very loud voice "what took you so long? You HAVE to have the kids in here on time" with a mad look on her face. The teacher I work with didn't stick up for me and said "well, they didn't leave the class late. It was exactly 11:45"

I know these aren't huge things, but I don't see why people have to be so rude about minor things. And I don't buy the excuse that it is hard when several women work together....I don't say rude things to other women!!!