Is This Normal for a Toddler?

Perfectly normal. At home with you, she is comfortable, happy and in a familiar place, so she feels free and ready to do things on her own and amuse herself more on her own. When your husband (who is not around her all day like you are) or others are around, she is in a very slightly less familiar environment so she turns to you for additional attention. Normal at this age. Be proud that she is happy and relaxed enough at home with you that she does NOT need you to amuse her every second. But do keep on introducing new things to do, toddler-appropriate crafts, outdoor play, lots of reading to her, mommy and me groups, library story times, etc. -- keep her busy little mind stimulated. She's doing fine.

It sounds like in company or away from home she feels a little insecure. Or, she's jealous that there are others to capture your attention. That's sounds normal to me.

Totally normal - when it is just the two of you she knows she can have you when/if she wants but when new people come into the mix it is more questionable to her. Start reminding teaching her how to host people and make her the co-hostess, even if you host a fancy dinner for just the three of you a night or two a week.

She doesn't want you paying attention to anyone else! Of course it's normal! Love that age. :)

I suspect that you are giving her more attention when you are alone than you realize. You don't have the distraction of other people, etc. so you just don't notice. She is probably just feeling "hey, I usually have your undivided attention, what's the deal?". I would try to make sure she plays on her own a little each day, obviously monitored from a distance. Even limiting her ability to interupt what you are busy at home with might help. "I will be there in just a minute, I'm finishing up... right now, you'll need to wait".

Yes, it is normal!

M