Hi T.,
I hope you won't mind my feedback. I'm an older mom who had my children fifteen years apart. I learned a lot more about nutrition in those fifteen years, so when I surprisingly found myself pregnant between thirty-nine and forty y/o; I knew what to do after she was born.
It sounds as if you have either chosen or are not able to breastfeed your precious child, which is unfortunate; because that is the best most natural nutrition and beginning for your baby. But T., I was only able to breastfeed Chelsea Joy for five-six months, yet when not able to; I fed her goat milk. It's been said that goat milk has soft curds within the stomach, besides being a gentle and nutritious alternative to formula, etc. Formulas are man made and don't always have the best ingredients in them. Perhaps you could google or research goat milk and you would find out additional info about it.
I have another suggestion for when you begin solid food. I made almost all of Chelses's baby food, but the first food I gave her after breast milk was mashed potatoes. I didn't put any butter or salt in them, just cooked them and put a little breast milk or goat milk in them to make them creamy when I mashed them. I chose not to give my baby the icky powdered baby cereal in the box that the doctors suggested. After that I would cook either fresh or frozen veggies or fruits and put them in the food processor to give my daughter to eat. The second food I prepared was carrots, (which I had made for my son fifteen years previous)and it tastes wonderful! I used to call it carrot pudding. I didn't add anything to it just saved some of the cooking water to add to them while they were in the food processor. Chelsea ate with no problems, all veggies and fruits, even avocados, zucchini, spinach, and anything that is good for health. Best thing to do, is to prepare it and feed it to your child and not withhold it if you don't personally like the food. Feeding your child a variety of fruits and veggies early in life, will start them out on a path of good health. If they eat it early in life they're bound to keep eating it throughout their lifetime which will mean that they will more likely be a healthy and not overweight through their life.
Sorry, hope I haven't talked too much here. Really, from my experience just trying to help. I remember that my daughter who wasn't given a lot of sugar in the way of cookies, candy, etc.would easily reach for celery, apples, or anything else fresh and good for her, and didn't ask for any of the sweets often consumed by children today. I'm not saying that I never made cookies or cakes, but the fiber in fresh produce was always there for her to eat as well; and she did. Chelsea was not a sick child, instead healthy with lots of energy, and her brain worked very well too. She also ate plain yogurt in her oatmeal later on, which is good for ones health. It has friendly bacteria in it that is good for our guts.
I'd love to talk to you again, if you aren't repelled by what I've written here. I hope that you'll consider that what I've said is for good health and with the best intentions for you and your little one.
Sincerely,
Linda
p.s. I forgot to say that I hope that the relux that your child is having isn't a medical problem. But then again, it could be that man made formula doesn't agree with your child's system?? Look up info about goat milk. I worked for a doctor many years ago who used to buy it fresh from someone in the area who had a goat or two, for his wife; which helped her. Good Luck and good health to you and your child T..