Oh, geez, do I ever remember reflux problem! My son was born preemie (2mos preemie) and was diagnosed w/G.E.R. (gastroesophagael reflux). To put it lightly, he couldn't hold ANYTHING down. By 4 months he only weighed 11 lbs. We did everything you have said you are doing, but eventually had to have him admitted at Riley's Children's Hospital in Indpls., IN. There we seen a Dr. Fitzgerald who specialized w/this type of problem. He stated that our son was born too early, therefore his little valve that held food down, but allowed air to escape, was not yet formed completely yet. He had put my son on the medicine called Reglan which is used to relax the stomach muscle. Then, we had to ALWAYS keep our son in a upright position for up to 2 hours during and after feeding. In his crib we had to keep him reclined in an upright position by placing him in a "pumpkin seat". This assured that his food digested before he could vomit it up again. We were, also, not allowed to burp him, and was given drops for gas, we were told to not move him around much until at least an hour after his feeding, then try to burp him after the hour, but only if he acted like he was colicky. Another suggestion was to place him-supervised-in a "pumpkin seat" right after his feeding on top of our washing machine that was set on the spin cycle. The vibrating would help bring up gas bubbles w/little spit-up. All of these had worked. Needless to say, on December 24th, my son never again vomited. It was the best Christmas present we could've ever received! I hope this helps some. I know exactly how hard it is to deal w/this sort of problem. My prayers go out to you.
D. Blackford,
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