W.W.
Tomboyglamourgirl.
You are a control freak. Sorry. But you are.
Why can't the kids splash and play in the pool? WHAT else are they supposed to do??
WHY are you lecturing your daughter about her weight? WHY not just lead by example and make sure she has healthy choices? When we lecture kids about their weight? They become even MORE self-conscious and it leads down two paths - obesity or anorexia. Neither of which are good. Back off. Ensure healthy choices are given in the house. Stop badgering her about her weight.
What's WRONG with the minion movie? It's cute. It's funny. What is your problem with it?
HIDING movies? Come on. Grow up. Enough,
You don't like your BIL - got it. Have him move out. Tell him he has 30 days to find his own place. Make sure your husband is on board with this as well. You don't need to be fighting with your husband too.
Depending upon the STATIN you are taking? Yes, anger and outbursts are side affects. you need to talk with your doctor about the anger issues you are having. Personally? I don't like statins and would rather change my diet and lifestyle than take a statin medication.
___________original post has changed since I posted...added aout friend dying and anti-depressants
My brother in law lost his job and now lives here. He has been here for over a year and still works sporadically. He pays for his own food usually but he owes me like 20 bucks right now .He says he is looking but I think he is lying. I could get him a job, but he will probably screw it up, because he screws everything up.
My husband thinks he helps a lot with the kids , I feel that he is pitting them against me. He stuck up for my daughter when I lectured her about her weight. He lets them watch the minions too many times.
Everytime they play in the pool I feel like I have to stand at the door and boss him around and freak out about how he is watching the kids. He lets them splash around and act too crazy in the pool.So we had a big fight about it and I hid the minions and Transylvania and Scooby doo. My kids are mad, my husband is mad because I keep redoing all the housework my brother in law does, because it does not look right. Also my husband and I had a big fight over whose fault it is our sons are acting out . I have been angry and more on edge since I started taking cholesterol meds. I al also on new antidepressants because my friend died. I am thinking of just leaving, I don't what to do.