Oh, I am sorry. I don't think March can come soon enough for you.
If the language she speaks is a fairly common one, see if you can get someone to translate "Your mom says you have allergies. Which ones do you have?" for you. If she speaks Chinese, Japanese, or Korean, I can get a translation for you-- just let me know. You could even try emailing the Second Language Studies Dept at UH (I might be able to help you with that, too) and see if someone there can help you-- it's just a few lines to translate....? Or you can ask the mamapedia community, too..
i would try to get the basic answer just for my peace of mind that she wouldn't have a SEVERE reaction to something in my house/kitchen. and then I would TRY to relax a little (I know, easier said than done, but the older I get, the more I have come to believe-- "I can only do the best I can, I'm sorry it is not enough for you. It is the best I can do." Then, I TRY not to feel too guilty :)
Hang in there (as my college professor use to say-- no matter HOW bad it is, NO ONE can stop the sun from rising and setting and from time passing. This, too, shall pass...