You and I must be kindred spirits. I was just having this thought while laying in bed this morning. The end of the school year is upon us and I was reflecting upon the good,the bad and the ugly of this school year. I'd have to say majority of it was the good.
We live in a very progressive area of California, near San Francisco. My kids are in 2nd,6th and 8th grade. (The older two are in Middle School.)
I wish I had more time to address all the things I would change. But, I have to say we have really been happy with the experiences our kids have had in the public school system. It has not been all rosy. But, with disappointment, failures and set backs come a greater good: adaptation,trial and error and humility.
I taught Kindergarten before having kids. I saw kids that had been in daycare and then a couple years of preschool and Pre-K. Guess what? They didn't fair any better by the end of the year than the kids just thrown into Kindergarten as their first institutionalized learning experience. This has caused me to do much reflection and reading.
I personally like the Common Core movement, although I don't think it is perfect. It has some flaws but then again, what government program doesn't :) I think it is a step in the right direction.
I would like to see college LESS stressed. Yes, I said it. I would like to see preschool LESS stressed. I would like to see extra curricular activities and tutoring LESS stressed. Kid were better equipped to adapt to new environments, change in life and life on the playground in decades prior to all this push for perfection in all areas on an imagined resume kids were acquiring from birth.
I like what I am seeing my kids doing in school with Common Core. They are doing projects by themselves, projects with groups, debates, Power Point presentations, discussions and hands on learning. I would like less testing at the Federal level. Let teachers teach. I personally don't even care about the standardized test scores my kids get each year. I look at what skills they are learning daily, their love for learning and how they work with others.
I would love to see trade schools encouraged more. I would like to see the Arts become an integral part of everyday learning. My kids are soooo inspired when they do art, music or dance. They learn, they retain, they are inspired when that part of the brain is sparked.
I would like more opportunities for the kids to serve at their school. Our oldest, this year in 8th grade, was selected to represent our city in a student exchange program in Japan. It was an amazing experience. Two things that stuck out to me about the difference between the schools in the U.S. and Japan is dress code and service at school.
In Japan, the students all wear the same uniform. I love it! It breaks down the class system and makes them more unified. They also have one class period each day for cleaning the school. They mopped the floors by hand, picked weeds, washed desks and windows etc. Our son loved working with his Japanese peers cleaning the school. I think this teaching moment each day instills more into the hearts and minds of students than many programs that cost millions of our tax dollars. I also like that the teachers were required to dress professionally. Let's have our teachers in the U.S. dress like the professionals they are instead of shorts,t-shirts and sandals.
I could go on and on. I read a book recently titled, How Children Succeed- Grit, Curiosity, and the Hidden Power of Character. It is a fabulously written book. It has become a foundation for how we are raising our kids.(Also the book Free Range Parenting) We allow them to explore new things without us hovering over them, we allow them to make decisions on their own and allow them to make mistakes without fear of mom and dad's backlash.
We give them the nurturing, love and tools to be able to make choices everyday on their own. From what they put in their lunch to if they do their homework or not. We allow the school to punish them for what happens at school and not intervene. It has worked so well for us and we see such growth and maturity from NOT hovering and fighting their battles for them. I see way too much over scheduling of kids today. Kids are told what to do, when to do it, how to do it. Kids are not thinking for themselves or learning instinct. They wait to be told to do the most basic things. I see it in my middle school kids's friends...so sad.
On that note, we received a Common Core for Parents helpful hints note from school. I loved it. It gave examples of how to implement the critical thinking skills in the home. Johnny asks a question. Don't automatically answer it. Ask him what he thinks. Duh!! Common Core to me is trying to teach kids Common Sense! A child at home struggles with something, don't rush in to help. Ask the child how they could solve the issue. It also talked about letting your kids have a voice at home with what is for dinner, what they can put in their lunch, what would be a good time to set apart as "Homework Time". Let kids think out the situation with pros and cons.
Another area that I think that needs some attention is the home and family. Kids that have a strong foundation at home do better at school. Many kids struggle at school because their hearts are broken..their homes are broken. I have seen this in my own classroom as well as my kids' classrooms. I came from a broken home...I know the pain. It was hard to focus at school when my home life was a wreck and an emotional roller coaster. Divorce, unwed pregnancy are the root of of much of the poverty and other ill behavior statistics. School cannot remedy this nor all the tax dollars in the world. Let's work on improving our homes no matter the situation or background. Let's think of the kids and what is best for them. ( I am not advocating staying in a horrible and abusive marriage to keep your kids' test scores up. That won't help.) You get the gist, let's spend some time to think how we can raise the positive feeling in our family.
Ok..I gotta go. I have a laundry list of things to do. But, your question leaped out at me. I love our public school system. I think things could be better and many of the changes wouldn't cost a dime. I have loved all of my kids' teachers and many still keep in touch. There are soooo many wonderful teachers out there but their hands are tied at what they can or cannot teach.
I think the educators out there should think more about how to get these students ready for LIFE and not just college. Let's not focus so much on the Math that most of us will NEVER use but instead basic math skills. Sure we all get through Algebra 2, statistics and Calculus. But, how many adults are up to their eyeballs in debt and can't balance their checkbook. Let's teach common sense economics and home economics.
Ok..I could go off on so many tangents. I am outta here! Thanks for the reflection time, time on my soapbox and the opportunity to read other opinions.
++Oh, I had one more thought as I was switching out laundry. Not sure you will even see this. Tenure! Let's make it easier to get rid of bad teachers instead of moving them around from school to school. Did you ever see the movies Waiting for Superman and Race to Nowhere? Such great insight into the pros and cons of our current school system. I highly recommend them. Race to Nowhere was shown at our High School and the principal is trying to implement many things. I can' wait for our son to start High School there in the Fall+++