Hi E.!
You don't sound pathetic and at least you are asking and seeking!! That is great! First off, are you a SAHM? If not, this does tend to make it harder to meet friends during the week because that is when most "moms" get together and let their kids play and also set up Play-Groups/Play-dates. Due to this, most family time is set up during the weekend when Dads are home.
I am a 42 YR SAHM to my 3 year old son. I have met lots of new moms and made some really great friends just from talking to people that I meet at malls, parks and other kid-friendly venues.
Either way, you can meet friends. Where do you live?
Send me some more info and let me see if I can hook you up!
I am the membership VP of a MOMS CLUB here in Allen and have met some wonderful moms. Some work part-time and full-time, but we are all friends.
Drop me an email at ____@____.com
Good Luck!
G. B.