I just got goose-bumps reading your story.
what a great woman... at that instant you needed her.... like a grey angel.
I was at the grocery store a couple of weeks ago with my 2 kids. My Son was in a mood... yelling to go to the "toy aisle." Me saying "no... we are just here for milk... " and having done all the prep and head's-up/warnings/distractions/incentives prior to going there.... like my alter-ego does with my kids. LOL
So he was yelling and pulling my arms in the opposite direction, pulling & pushing my grocery cart like a Nascar driver... and my Daughter being like a 2nd Mommy... we both trying to gallantly dissuade him and distract him.
Then the store clerk... walks by, side-glancing at us and the commotion. Me just flashing her a sheepish grin and saying "he loves your toy aisle... and he's t-i-r-e-d.... (wink)." So then she comes up to him, crouches down and starts talking to him saying "hi big guy, how about you tell Aunty where you get your big voice? Mommy loves you but she's not Santa Clause. How about a donut? Your Mommy is getting you your milk, Mmmmm...." and then, she... on her own, while working, led him to the donut grab-your-own thingy cubbies, and got him a donut. I went up to the check-out to check-out my groceries and the donut... but she told me it was "free." She had paid for it herself. I just about cried. For my daughter, it was a real sterling 'lesson' about charitable good deeds and how Mommies help each other out. She said, "I bet she's a good Mommy too... she could tell you were going crazy... her kids must love her... wow, I can't believe how caring she was...and she was working!" It really left an impression on my daughter. And a lump in my throat.
We all pay it forward...
thanks for the reminder.