J.D.
Hi J.,
I am in a similar situation. I have been with my boyfriend for eight years and no ring yet, we have a beautiful 2 1/2 year old son. We also have more differences than commonalities, but I think for us opposites attract. I know he is the one because I can always count on him to be there for me. Whether I am sad or scared he is the first person I think of. When I have a great day I think of him first. You'll know if he is the one. It is just deciding if he is worth the wait. I will wait as long as it takes. I try not to think of my son when thinking about me being with his father, because my parents stayed together for us and it was hard on all of us. I stay with him, because I love him. My son loving him too just makes it easier. I hope this helps.