How Do I Deal with a Picky Eater

I think a decline in eating is pretty normal at this age. I wouldn't worry too much! Sounds like your Dr. is micor-managing his weight! I would try more 'finger-foods' that your son can feed himself. My kids were all pretty much done with "baby food" by this age. Or, if he still likes the baby food, give him his own spoon that he can try to feed himself with, while you're getting bites in as well, can be messy and tricky, but it might work:) There are also utensils called 'lil dippers' I think, where the end is just flat, instead of like a spoon, those are fun for toddlers too. Just keep experimenting, you'll both be fine!

C.-mother of 4

The book "Super Baby Foods" may be of good help to you. Skim through for his age level and there may be some wonderful ideas.

Even though he is not eating a bunch does he drink lots of fluids? He may be substituting fluids for food which even adults will do sometimes. Is there some change that has happened in your life? A new house, someone changing jobs, or some other type of stressor? Are you stressed? This will all make a difference in how well a child will eat also. Kids pick up on the stress that is in a home and respond with the only thing they have control over, eating. You might also try adding fruit to the oatmeal. I know this sounds odd but I actually tried that stuff and it is pretty yucky. Vary the fruits until you find one he likes. Could be that he just doesn't like the taste of the food. You could also try giving him sliced bananas and cheerios. Does he try for food on your plate? Are you feeding him at the same time everyone else eats? If not change his feeding schedule so that he is a part of the family meals. He may be feeling left out.